How to know if your partner is cheating on you Online
People say TRUST is one of the keys to a healthy and long-lasting relationship. However, sometimes, we can’t help but doubt our partners, and it’s completely normal. That is, until the point when our gut is forcing us to discover the uncertainty.
Nowadays, there are a lot of ways to cheat, and the most commonly used platform is through social media. As a writer, I know this article will cater to only two people: the cheater and the victim. So here are some of the best ways to discover if your partner is cheating on you online.
Author’s Note: We are not encouraging you to read this, for it might cause you trouble – so proceed with caution.
#1 Hiding IG Story/MyDay
The first offense is when your partner hides his/her MyDay or Instagram Story. I don’t want you to immediately doubt your partner when he/she hides his/her stories to you, but if this is happening very often, then that might cause suspicion. Identifying if someone hid their MyDay/ IG story is quite hard, but the easiest way to know is to observe your partner’s behavior, or maybe a friend of yours might help.
#2 Flirting through Gaming Platforms
This one is the funniest, and also a smart way to cheat: chatting through gaming platforms, including steam, PUBG, Call of Duty, or any game with a chat feature. Check these apps/games because sometimes people here don’t just play. Some are using these platforms to go over behind someone else’s back since it is a discrete way to cheat.
#3 Facebook’s Secret Conversation
Having the ability to access your partner’s Facebook Messenger is not enough to catch them red-handed since Messenger has a Secret Conversation feature. It has end-to-end encryption, meaning messages made through this will only appear on the device where the message initially sent, plus you can set messages to disappear. So watch out for this.
#4 Dating Apps
Another way to tell that your partner is going behind your back is if there are dating apps installed on their phone. If this isn’t a visible sign, I don’t know what is. These days, some people in a relationship are trying to have hookups through these apps. Surprisingly, some people fall for it.
#5 Social Media and Messaging Apps
There are apps that people use to cheat on their partner, and sometimes, these apps are the apps we mostly use, including Telegram, What’s App, Twitter, Snapchat, the most popular one, Instagram, and even Tiktok!
Some people use these apps since you can delete messages here without having a trace. You can delete and edit messages, and like Snapchat, it can automatically disappear. So be cautious and vigilant when you see your partner using these apps.
Now, if you’ve come to this far, that means you have a strong feeling that your partner is doing something behind your back. I know how painful it is, but one way to solve this issue is by rather confronting them. Ask him/her if your hunches were right. Although let’s be honest, most people will deny these unjust actions, but try to solve this in a non-toxic manner because no matter what you do, if a person will cheat, they will do the impossible just to go beyond your back.
I advise you not to do or say things that you will regret later. Check yourself too, maybe you make your partner feel as if he/she is on a leash. No matter what happens, the bond of relationship between two people is hard to break. Think of it as a phase of a relationship, so don’t give up, and fix it.
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